Six things men can try for better orgasms

There’s a common misconception that male orgasms are straightforward and simple. You have sex, men come, and that’s that. But there’s plenty of room for exploration and improvement. Men can try new things, see what works for them, and have all the mind-blowing orgasms they fancy. Here are some things worth trying. Edging  You’ve probably heard of edging, but if you haven’t got around to trying it, you definitely should. Edging is the act of bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and then backing off, over and over. By staying in a heightened state of arousal, you can build the intensity of the orgasm when you finally let yourself go over the edge. The longer you prolong your orgasm, the more intense it will be, and the longer it will last. Many men also use edging to train themselves to last longer and prevent premature ejaculation. Kerri Middleton, male sexual health and pleasure expert at Bathmate, tells Metro.co.uk: ‘Edging is getting right up to the point of orgasm but being able to stop just before and almost reset. ‘Some people will shut their eyes, block out what’s happening for 20 seconds and be able to carry on, whereas others find holding the penis firmly at the base for a moment gives them that breathing space to start again. ‘A lot of people worry about how long they last in bed and overthinking it makes it so much worse, edging means that even if they think they’re going to climax they get a ‘second wind’ (or even more) giving them a longer play session.’ Essentially, try getting close to the point of orgasm, pause, and start up again. It’s fun, promise.

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